Same, same but very different

Sunday morning activity on the shores of the muddy Mekong, selling ”freedom” of baby sparrows for a dollar a pair.

A pay phone on the main strip- a young boy sits in a plastic chair besides a metal booth with a cell phone waiting. One gets the shelter, the live contact and the opportunity to call home for  few 1000 riels.

Chickens slaughtered in the local market, boiled possibly alive after collecting their blood into tiny porcelain bowls for… don’t think I wanna know.

Noa with chicken

Re-electing the same political party CPP that has been in office since 1985 and is responsible for most of the country’s corruption and poverty.

Having to pay to go to school and get a descent job but not receiving a pay check at the end of the month.

While visiting S21 (the school turned into a torture camp during the war) where  a sign is posted everywhere reminding visitors not to smile or laugh!

Loading as many people, things and even a motor cycle on any moving vehicle.

The local movie theater- a large open air  restaurant with a thatched roof, 7-8 TVs going at once and good 40 plastic lounge chairs with mostly men. You can smoke, eat whatever you choose and drink but NO alcohol.

When it comes to the road. YOU have the right away whether you are on foot, in a wheel chair, a tuk tuk, a bike, a rickshaw, a motor cycle, a Lexus or a bus; and so does everyone else!!! The motto when stepping of the sidewalk Don’t look, don’t hesitate and do pray!

Caging one’s laundry can be quite beneficial when it comes to  avoiding theft except when it cages you.

The grass is always greener on the other side. Women of all ages are masked, covered from head to toe despite the intense heat, purchasing, for the very few that can, whitening creams.

Their banks are found in garages, pharmacies, hardware stalls. A  case of single paned glass with a mixture of all denominations and currency from the 4 corners of the world.

Same, same but very different!

A Cambodian adventure: a journey into impermanence

Arrival in CambodiaArrived last night exhausted after digesting 3 long flights. Passing customs, we stepped onto the street into the balmy evening in search of a taxi to transport us and our backpacks to the centre of Phnom Penh for a mere 7USD. The 30-minute drive weaving in and out of tuk tuks, cars and motorcycles with frequent honks and stops and starts offered us a small introduction into Cambodia’s capital and second most popular tourist destination.

Set in the heart of Phnom Penh’s colonial district with the Royal Palace just minutes by foot, we settled on a small yet simple guesthouse with a pool for Noa on tiny off street called ‘’Saint’’, possibly a hint from divinity, as we would soon meet many many saints. Sarat warmly greeted us at the white rod iron gate lead, up a narrow open- air staircase lined with candle lit votives, passed a beautiful terrace suspended over a calm residential street where kids shoot marbles, mothers cook and their spouses play cards for high stakes, through some large glass doors and into a spacious lounge with a wooden counter acting as a front desk. Sleepily we handed over our passports, two of them that is. In the short time from the airport to the guesthouse we had managed to lose one en route. Within seconds we realized that this was not a good thing but Sarat and Arun with calm gentle smiles assured us that there was nothing to worry about tonight. We wondered but this became the mode… tomorrow.

Our room was on the 2nd floor of this 1950’s home of 8 guest rooms in total. Up a winding wooden spiral staircase, we entered a spacious white walled tastefully decorated room with colossal ceilings, a suspended mosquito net that we never used, and tiny bathroom. Noa was interested in one thing only, the mysterious pool which we questioned it’s where abouts. The building was constructed in height with the kitchen on the ground floor, the terrace and a few rooms on the second, the third housed another few rooms so we supposed that the pool was on the roof. Intrigued, we had a look. No pool but remembered that it was advertised. Sarat, looking as calmly as could be in a very friendly voice repeated ‘’Oh, no worries, I will call my friend who has a tuk tuk and he will take you over to the pool of a friend of a friends’’. That was it, as simple as that like the passport and many other things to come.

Despite the lack of sleep, we descended the spiral stairwell, passed the glass doors, down the candle lit steps and though the iron gate onto Saint St., which was poorly illuminated. Just meters from the entrance, off the curb and in the gutter Noa saw a white cross. Sure enough Sarat was right. The saints were with us and the third passport turned up as mysteriously as it had disappeared.

We slept like logs, had an amazing breakfast and set out on foot for an all day walk through horrific traffic, suffocating heat, an array of smells ranging from sweet incense to ”you don’t want to know what”, piles of rubbish and warm inviting smiles. Made contact with Isabelle, a Canadian, who founded Nataraj Yoga and who would supply us with a bit of karma yoga. She is another saint doing incredible work in the midst of chaos teaching ex-pats and also highly dedicated to promoting community outreach programmes. She is strong, balanced with a great sense of warm-hearted humor:

We visited S21 (Tuol Sleng or poisonous hill or worthy of guilt), the equivalent to Auschwitz, a local school that was turned into hell during the 1975 Pol Pot regime. Thousands of children, adults and foreigners were tortured for months in ways you could never imagine. Some just too graphic photos (not for the weak hearted) for even the most demented to digest where floors of former classrooms were divided up into torture chambers and primitive individual cells that one wouldn’t dare house a pig. Enough to question humanity and its goodness and cause nightmares for even the deepest of sleepers.

Caught in a 10-minute rainstorm, which was actually a welcome surprise. Stopped for dinner. Washed down fish Amok with cold beers and fresh lemon juice. Tomorrow, up early to visit the Killing Fields before meeting with Isabelle for our karma yoga.

The journey into the unknown has begun and there is no turning back.